The Past is the Past

First of all I’m a wife of a former sex offender not active sex offender. Meaning no harm but when Jesus sets you free your free indeed he changes your mind and heart your whole being , yes I’m bringing up spiritual side , because society the world condemns you for your past , even though your past is past , that is what it is , my husband of 12 years was charged of an offense committed when over 20 years ago but charged in 2009 , the lawyer was a former prosecutor , then became a defendant attorney public , when Hub talked to him , all he said was your looking at 50 if they believe the victim in trial you’re looking at 25 years , prison, so Hub and I talked and his mom and said take way ever plea there is so he did which was written sex offender counseling , comm supervision for life and polygraphs and probation 18 years , my husband has been in probation now going on 9 years , 9 years of counseling 9 years of poly graphs every 6 months at 175 each , and counseling few 225 month each pro 45 each and still paying on his court fee

Well I thought when you get you paper work it would give you a time limit such as the mandatory counseling stuff , but no time limit like how many year etc he’s have to go to counseling each week , no years was written , so now it’s going on 9 years now ;( this stuff has burdened our finances and top this , they make you take another poly if you happen to fail it !! Well polys aren’t 100 percent accurate they only 50 to 50 accurate , and the last one he did he failed it , but in truth he Didn’t !! He went to another polygrapher a month later and guess what he Passed it No problem , the same questions that was asked month earlier they asked in past few months which would of been from the last one he had and he passed it , !! People want to do point out if you fail test means you lying and then you made to take another at your expense and then if you fail the ready to punish you in pro ,, but my hubby passed he told truth the last one he took , this is why polys are unconstitutional period and why have to keep taking them every 6 months , and then next 9 years every 6 months and they use it to threaten you in pro and counselling etc so if you tell truth but fail you in trouble what with the machine !! When the machine can even raise signal even for anything doesn’t mean someone is lying , then while in the place Hub was taking his poly the guy was coming out from his poly and guess what he said His lawyer told him Do Not go back to the mandatory counselling The lawyer said It was Unconstitutional ! But I didn’t get to talk to the guy about it but that’s what was said !!

So if all this stuff is Unconstitutional why it still allowed in govt why the restrictions for families to live normal restricted that not even a dad can participate in their kid life that was not a victim , why can’t my hub go watch our son play sports go to parks and be part of my son life besides just helping with homework and throwing ball in our yard , my son is ten and this is Affecting him his behavior he’s bored and needs his dad in his life more so , cannot the punishment stop and bring on programs that will let us be families you know liberty to go travel , walk live , and you wonder why children become depressed and mad and bored and possibly get in trouble , the govt gives them Nothing to do with their families , mom dad son we are not just mom and son We need my hub my son needs his dad and us all participate in his life growing up , let’s stop and think about All kids not only kids that may have a father at home that hadn’t made a mistake etc in past life , kids have rights to even if his dad has a label on him , and things need to change !! Tenn needs lawyers to step up and help families Govt needs to stop punishing us all for past mistakes , they are punishing people for life by breaking families up , not restoring them , isolating them , outcasting them as Lepers and hurting the children the Most doing this

Think about families homeless without a dad working cause of foot restrictions , think about the bullying and vigilante stuff that’s happened in our country , ya they say it’s agsindt the law etc to do tat but still goes on , my hub lost a job cause the boss said well I knew you was on registry but we can’t have public to find out their reputation will be bad , so let him go , he was also harassed at a job he’s been st for years but when first started some body tried to call his boss and left message you know some one on sex offender registry works there etc , and boss of course knew about hub on registry but still he got that kind of call ( harrassment ) then you get neighbors calling you names all cause The List !!

People have been murdered due to the list ! The public list needs to stop and make it private for govt officials only as it did long ago ! This isn’t right , my hub is truly sorry for what he did back then , took responsibility and accountability but all there’s is is cont punishment for life to all , I wake up sometimes hoping this registry restrictions is gone and can live normal and picture our son as a happy child and unbored and not depressed !!but then realize the reality and all can do is cry and pray things will change to be fair one day in families lives , we are not the only one suffering we all suffer every families every child that can’t have their dad participate in their lives or moms who ever on registry , ;( we are not single moms or dads we are Family but govt takes it away ;( I know God can do the Impossible and I’m praying one day in time he will make it All possible families can be families !! Also it’s restoration that helps former sex offenders , having jobs , liberty to travel , a home , stability , helps and the registry rules takes this away , those who aren’t even married but want to get married they are seperated not cause of their own doing but cause the govt doesn’t allow it , , Love helps love forgives love restores , I’m never going to stop praying for all and reformed sex and offenders and their families and these laws that are unconstitutional , if it’s unconstitutionsl one state it should be every state same way , oh yah good news after almost 9 years of in being restricted to even be online to look up normal stuff , jobs news etc he finally was told long as he has covenant eyes on comp and his pro was accountability partner he can have internet Praise God ! He said cause one state found it Inconstitutional restricting sec offenders from being online who on csl, I’m happy for my hub we pray and prayed one day he’d be allowed to be online and be normal , so yes lil by lil tenn is seeing some the laws even while on pro is unconstituitional such as no internet , now they can be online Praise God 😉 , so there is a lil bit freedom there praise God 😉 let them laws. Cont to be shown they Unconstitutional in the states and others will follow in other states to be unconstitutional , ! So so far internet he can have , maybe more liberty freedom he can have before he ever passes away from cong heart failure he has ;( and maybe before he grows old ,;( life time registry or even 25 years after pro is punishment to the extreme , it should start accumulating the day you get out of jail the day you get put on pro not after pro all done ! So 18 years pro then registry time accumulates That’s Unconstitutional ! And lifetime registry after doing great 9 years in pro paying the fees going counceling 9 years and nine years every six months polygraph of 175 each hmm sounds like the govt wants families to be in debt , homeless without help without hope , many of us families work very hard at jobs and provide and it’s still tough with all these outrageous fees , one state can be small fee one state can be very High fees , ! We pay high fees in tenn 225 counceling fee each month pro 45 each month poly 175 plus gas each 6 months plus annual 150 each year for hub annual registration fee , why isn’t every state the same ! Wew, so we don’t even know the deal is counceling for test life or til pro is done with ? Or is this at all constitutional , some lawyer already told a guy it wa s Unconstitutional so if it’s unconstitutional then it shouldn’t be !

One Comment

  1. david

    Sounds like forced servitude, with all the fees and charges and whatnot. Keep looking on the positive, we know the negative side too well already. There have been some victory’s and as more and more people get caught in this malicious scheme (SORNA), change will only happen faster.

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