By Paul . . . Okay, so my case involved a seventeen-year-old. I understand there are some real predators out there and I purposely work with the elderly to avoid the impropriety of being around potential victims. Why does my PO contact my clients and tell them I am a predator and a bad man. Telling them they are in danger even though I only work by referrals, I will answer their questions truthfully. I do not disclose my status as a sex offender or that I’m on parole unless I am specifically asked or required to disclose it. I created my own business find my own clients I don’t drink or do drugs. I’m 100℅ reliable and still my PO tries to interfere with my job. She knows that i cannot get a regular job but she insists that I must get a nine to five. I created my own business have a business registration pay taxes etc. all legit and by the book. Even the parole board has told her I’m allowed to operate my own business as long as I follow the rules and law but she seems to feel it’s still a problem.
Unfortunately, there are a lot of problematic, lesbian man-haters in law enforcement and corrections.
“I do not disclose my status as a sex offender or that I’m on parole unless I am specifically asked or required to disclose it. ”
This is why.
Paul, I belive that some of these P O ‘s get the power and it goes to their heads ! Do what you have to survive .People make mistakes and do some stupid things without thinking . Don’y put yourself down . If you feel that you have a behavior that needs working on get some help ! Don’t go the rest of your life blaming yourself because other people can’t see life past their own noses. Good luck to you and keep your head held high !
I don’t like how you insult yourself by saying you work with the elderly to “avoid being around potential victims”… Dude, the legal age of consent is 16 in 27 states and the rest are 17 and 18. So I’m guessing N.M.’s age of consent is 18. Therefore, your alleged “victim” would not be a victim in CT or NY. So why are you downing yourself and overly explaining yourself?
Oh, because someone might accuse you of “minimizing the offense”? The same offense that would not be an offense in most other states? Yeah. That offense.
I don’t feel pity for someone’s who is brainwashed into believing they are a “predator” seeking out other “potential victims” when the so-called victim is a post pubescent teenager who’s legally able to operate a motor vehicle.
John Walsh was in his mid 20’s when he met the woman who would become his wife and she was 17. So what are you being so apologetic for?