Month: January 2013

originally posted 6/12   Hello everyone. My name is Cory and I’m writing this story so everyone knows the truth on how I got here and became a registered sex offender. Keep in mind I am not denying what i did and God say’s everyone makes mistakes, if not then your not human. It all began in September 2006. A buddy of mine wanted me to go to a strip club after the ball game and I decided to not go and go home instead. The next day my buddy was telling me how he met a girl at the strip club and how the 2 of them were into one another. Being the big joker i was at that time I decided to make up an email account sending my buddy sexual emails pretending to be her. Well the joke was on him and after about 2 weeks I finally told him the truth and he said he would…

originally posted 6/2012 Today I happened upon the RSOL website and felt such an incredible sense of relief and a glimmer of hope that perhaps someday our sex offender laws will reflect appropriate justice and true rehabilitation methods.  As a female sex offender, required to register, I have a unique niche in this strange RSO world.  I had no idea that by turning myself in for having an affair with one of my students I would be effectively destroying my life and beginning a perilous, never-ending journey to stay afloat, stay hopeful, remain strong, and survive.  Aside from the humiliating and awful labels applied to me (pedophile, violent predator, manipulator, child abuser, rapist etc.) and the emotional/mental depression resulting from such terrible labels, the most devastating trial that I have had to endure is losing my own three children.  The fact that they have not seen their own mother for over two years now, that they cannot talk to me…

originally posted 5/2012   “Although defendant presented evidence to contradict the testimony of (names not being used), upon a motion to dismiss, such discrepancies must be resolved in favor of the State.” With these words “”My”” country destroyed any chance of life in this country for me. The following describes my feelings as to what has been done to me by “”My”” country. Agony and Despair I am in AGONY every second of everyday. I am in AGONY because of what “”My”” country has taken from me. I am in Agony because “”My”” country has continued to Abuse me every second of every day. I am in DESPAIR every second of every day. I am in DESPAIR because I will never be allowed to reclaim what “”My”” country has taken from me. I am in DESPAIR because “”My”” country will continue to Abuse me every second of every day, until the day I die. I am in DESPAIR because “”My””…

originally posted 5/2012   My loved one is not there yet; awaiting the sentencing level on a later date.  Presently, the Aspergers loved one is serving out his time.  They did not rape or murder anybody but very difficult to find work and housing for them.  Some people have shunned away, even Adult Protective who neglected to help knowing he has a form of Autism.  I don’t feel it is right to deprive those with a mental health or developmental disability and be put on the registry because they can’t help they are disabled.  Announcing them to the world is risky and the laws should not be quick to use the registry for every single person; even if they are not violent people but unfortunately, the legal system can use your disability against you and sometimes, the disability  catches up to them by getting into trouble.  Instead, these individuals with disabilities need more supportive services, case management support, any helpful…

originally posted 5/2012   This is not a Tale as such but a research paper written by a young woman who wanted to share it with those whom it affects. She retains all right of ownership and copyright. Sex Offender Registration: Is it Effective? Sex offender registration began with the passage of the Jacob Wetterling Crimes Against Children and Sexually Violent Offender Registration Act (1994), which required each state to create their own specific program by which those who have been convicted of crimes against children or sexually violent offenses will be registered. Megan’s Law (1996), an amendment to the Jacob Wetterling Act, additionally required community notification of known offenders. Those states which do not comply with either the Jacob Wetterling Act or Megan’s Law are penalized with a reduction of the amount of federal crime control grant money they receive (Human Rights Watch [HRW], 2007, p. 36). The sex offender registration laws have continued to evolve over time, with…

originally posted 5/2012   Introduction to the new Book “”Life as a sex offender”” Copyright 2012: As I sit here today, I realize that something that happened almost 20 year ago, is still here to haunt my future and success, throwing curve balls in my path, that I have to try and hit my very best without giving up. The book continues on… This is my story and some stories of others. I sit here today once again effected by horrific decisions I made in my past. Although the system tells you, after you serve your sentence, it will all be over, it isn’t over. I am sitting at a friends apartment, in the semi-ghetto (to me) area of a large metropolitan city. I sit here because once again, someone has found out about my past mistakes, and told the person I was living with, that you have to kick him out right this minute. When I moved in with…

originally posted 5/2012   You never really understand the nightmare until you have lived it. Our nightmare began in 1995, when my husband was 19 years old. He was at a friend’s house, along with many teenagers. He met a girl there and she said she was 18. I know many of you already know where this is head… It turns out she was only 16. She was actually 16 years, 11 months when it happened. My husband being 19 years, 2 months. The difference in their age was barely over a year. Anyway, he was caught with her and although she told everyone it was consensual, he received 90 days in jail and 10 years probation. I met him in 2000 as a single mom of a 2 year old son and we married in 2002. I never truly knew what a nightmare it would be having this hanging over us all the time. It began with his probation…

originally posted 4/24/2012   I was a ignorant immature 20 yr. old man when i got my CSC charge. I was a shy bible thumping virgin when i met my best friend’s sexually active 14 yr old sister. I’m not gonna lie and say I didn’t  know it was wrong but if i only knew the struggle and hardship I would suffer the rest of my life i would have RAN AWAY! I went to school later to work in medical field but state wouldn’t let me certify. I tried lying on apps but at some point later even if i got employed it would only take someone saying something and i would be fired. Telling the truth would make sure my apps never made it past the secretary’s desk. Now I’m 39 and they just changed the laws from 25 yr registration to life. i was so looking forward to getting off in a few years. I work for minimum wage now…

originally posted 4/15/2012   I am putting this down, because I think there are injustices in the system that need to be looked at and addressed. I turned my self in and was sentenced to three years in prison for my crimes. After prison. I was lucky enough to be able to get back to work. That was primarily because in Oregon at that time. You did not have to register or have community notification. If you were still on post-prison Supervision. I was able to work my way back up into the my field and end up in a short amount of time as a plant manager for a major local company. A situation that wouldn’t have happened if I would’ve been on community notification. Later after completing post-prison I moving to another State to take care of my 87 year old father. About 6 years after my release from prison I remarried, and when the community was notified. My stepchildren and wife…

originally posted 4/4/2012   I traded nude photos online and was charged with child porn. I was in the US Army; they kept me in for 3 years after the time that it happened. I was promoted and deployed to Iraq. I was wrong for what I did, and I deserve some of what happened to me. I would never change it if I could; it has made me a better person. The problem is that a news paper from out of state wrote a story on me in Iraq. I was honorably discharged and then contracted in Iraq as a civilian  I was on probation for 10 years, and have paid my fines and time. I have a life time registry, and I choose where I live by my jobs first and then how the laws are there.   I think people like me who are low risk cover up the really dangerous few that are in the area. It hurts and worries…